• The guitar master

    As I saw him open the door, I said “Guitar Master”. He after all has played for as long as my memory can serve me: on the roof behind my house, and at various venues in Saigon. Still with that baritone voice and impeccable sense of humor. “You might think I am old, but put…

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  • Twitter and Twister

    The later brought destruction to the Mid_West, but its impact is immediate, albeit regional. The former more dangerous, simmering and long-tailed. 140 characters are more than enough to assassinate a character, his/her reputation which is built up over a life time. Be careful. Social malaise not social media in the wrong hands. Not enough post,…

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  • I am not Italian. Yet I broke out in tears yesterday, at least three times. A medical check revealed that I had a minor stroke five years ago, which means I have lived on life extension without knowing it. Had I known this sooner, would I have lived my life differently? Or moving forward, what corrections must I make.…

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  • Start seeing

    In two weeks, I am up for new pair of eye glasses. But today, upon first examination, the eye care doctor revealed what was obvious to her, but not to me: I have had a minor stroke (vein # 7), which pulled my left eye up and if I were able to ask someone to watch…

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  • Ways of seeing

    I saw a cone-hat lady make her garbage scavenging route after midnight.  I blurted out ” wow, that late. Must be tiring.” When my friend suddenly added ” she doesn’t depend on others to make her living”. Now, that’s an alternate way of seeing the same thing. Our judgment is often clouded by our prejudice.…

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  • Survivor’s guilt

    We have heard uplifting stories about the human spirits, survivors at seas and in the wilderness. But the other side of the coin is survivor’s guilt. This reaction is just an extension of that loneliness as portrayed in Cast Away. The story goes like this. Three guys survived a crash and found themselves on an…

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  • All Cast

    My neighbor got off his cast today. I congratulated him, and told him, me too, had a broken arm after my first month of Kung Fu. “It’s itchy and hairy”.  I got a chuckle out of him (who would otherwise looked so mean). A few minutes later, I walked past a man with only one arm.…

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  • Instead of a snow-bound scenario in a vacated hotel, we have  a newly-wed couple of  the House in the Alley The bloody ax, the shattering glass and the medium-rare steak. We were placed immediately inside a rain storm. That fateful night, like in Misery,  the first domino that starts a chain of mishaps: married sex life,…

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  • Male vulnerability

    Behind the tatoo, the tobacco and the toughness, lies male vulnerability. I read about how the Watergate break-in was just one among a list of outrageous proposals such as kidnapping, wiretapping and high-priced hookers blackmail etc… You can’t find tougher looking bunch than those “plumbers” and their Archille’s heels. Yes, there is also female vulnerability.…

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  • You got to be stronger, you got to be wiser…. Cigarette companies are employing sales girls to peddle their tobacco here: buy two get a lighter etc… The girls, all well cast to fit the bill. Sampling a product, hooked for life. Best way to break in a market is via Direct Sales: Likeability, Commitment and…

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