Behind the tatoo, the tobacco and the toughness, lies male vulnerability.
I read about how the Watergate break-in was just one among a list of outrageous proposals such as kidnapping, wiretapping and high-priced hookers blackmail etc…
You can’t find tougher looking bunch than those “plumbers” and their Archille’s heels.
Yes, there is also female vulnerability. But male’s vulnerability turns everything upside down: how can he be…..?
Males are wired (no punt intended) to conquer. His logic flows one way: hunt, see, conquer. Nothing gets in the way.
He likes closure, trophies and the declaration of victory.
Like a book with many short chapters, a male life consists of many failed attempts (often edited out).
You are lucky if you landed a few by lines on the New York Times’ obituary page.
Male with high EQ are rare: flexible, creative, sensitive and intuitive.
I am surrounded by male who smoke, swear and swindle. So I am forced to decode quickly. everybody has his or her vulnerable spot.
Call it blind spot. Some has a larger “spot” than others.
When cultures collide, there is a huge gap:
attitude towards the opposite sex, family, society and war invalids.
Men went to war. Men got hosed down. But not stay down.
Yes. Male vulnerability is not much different from human vulnerability at large.
Only when he attempts to gloss it over, to live in denial and with the illusion of grandeur, that it’s laughable
Momento morir (You will die, your Majesty).
Be mindful, be restless.
As I did. When woke up to the sound of funeral music.
Someone in the neighborhood was buried very early this morning.
The music might as well have been for me. For whom the bell tolls!
Yes, I am vulnerable. Always have. No sense to deny it.
Thang Nguyen 555 